Blessings, Faith, and Adventure



Every day we go about our business- we work, care for the kids,  manage the pets and somehow find the time to do the laundry. My most  valued time is time spent with my husband. We don't have to be doing  anything spectacular. Just sitting outside enjoying the evening and  quiet conversation- or really loud, hysterical laughter- both are just  as likely.

It is really hard for me to sacrifice that  time with my husband. But I did. Completely voluntarily. For a whole  week. IT WAS HARD. I started crying when my husband dropped me off at  the airport. Just a few tears streaming down my cheeks... which lead to  trying to check-in for my flight even though I had checked in online the  night before and standing in line to check my bag... but I didn't have a  bag to check. I made it another four days before I officially broke  down because I missed my people so much. 

In those four days, I had experienced SO much. 

I  became a Young Living member in July of 2015. Back then, I didn't  really know what I had gotten myself into. I barely used my oils and  when I did, they were a last resort. In January of 2017, I realized that  I had been missing out on so much that YL had to offer my family and I.  That was the first year that I became aware of the Young Living International Grand Convention and I declared that I would experience that in 2018. However, 2018 was full of family commitments and a tight  budget. So, I didn't go. But I did decide that nothing would keep me  from the 2019 International Grand Convention in Salt Lake City, Utah- It  is the 25th anniversary of YL after all- it was guaranteed to be an  amazing event. 

It was March of 2019 before I really  even thought of going to convention again. Convention was mid July. I was running out of time to find a ticket and transportation. Honestly,  this was not something that was budgeted for and I had barely mentioned  it to my husband. I just kept thinking that the right circumstances would come along and it would all work out. And it did. By mid-March, I  found a convention ticket for less than the early bird price- BONUS! I  also was blessed to have a friend reach out with a room in an Airbnb for the week of convention- perfect!

I was starting to  feel the pressure to find transportation by the time June rolled around.  However, with my wedding anniversary and my baby girl's 11th birthday,  convention wasn't really on my radar. Back in March, I had set Google  Flights to track flight prices and had been receiving regular updates.  Everyday closer to the day I needed to leave, the price went higher. Two and a half weeks before I would have to leave in order to do all of the things I had planned, an email came through with exactly the right price- it was so low, people didn't believe me when I told them. 
That  was it. I had my ticket, a place to stay, and my airfare. All that was left was to tell my husband that I was going. I am so freaking blessed that his only response was to tell me to enjoy every freaking minute of it. And I mostly did. 

While my husband managed the home front, I went on my first solo adventure. I had gone away for 3 day weekends, but I had never flown alone or been away from all of my people for quite that long. 

When I arrived in Salt Lake City, I found my way to public transportation and the convention center. I registered and received my convention swag. I found my friend and we went grocery shopping for the week. That first day was a blur of travel, new experiences, and shopping.

Day two was the highlight of the trip. What really drew me to Young Living was their  level of integrity and their transparency with their members. The fact that anyone can visit one of their farms just about anytime has always seemed so cool to me. And then I experienced it. 

I ended up going to the Young Living Farm in Mona, Utah "by myself"- sort of. I went with at least a thousand other YL members, but as far as I knew, I didn't know any of them. It was the most beautiful place and such a humbling experience. 
It blows my mind that there is a COMPANY that is so generous, benevolent, and whose mission is  truly to make lives better- and not by sending large amounts of money to big organizations, but by deeply connecting to individuals around the world and the organizations that those individuals are deeply connected to. It is unbelievable and such a blessing!

The remainder of the trip was wonderful. I took time to myself and spent each day with different people and explored different things available to me in the city. If you haven't been to convention- GO! It's an  amazing experience. AND you don't even have to be a member of YL to go experience it. 

Overall, I really want to impress upon you that if there is somewhere you want to go or something you want to do... DO IT! It's not easy and it can be nerve wracking or even  stressful, but it is worth every minute of it!! Find a way to afford it!  Count your blessings and say "yes" to adventure!!

Want to know more about YL or going to convention? Shoot me a message! I  would be honored to share this amazing company with you- no-pressure- just sharing  

Why Turn-out time is a non-negotiable for my horses

Why Turn-out time is a non-negotiable for my horses
There are definitely a variety of opinions about what a horse's life should look like. Should they live in a stall? outside? in a standing stall? in a pasture with grass? or a dry lot?

I am going to tell you my opinion and the information I used to form it. There are certain situations that will require different living arrangements for some horses and circumstances. For simplicity, I will only be addressing healthy horses without special circumstances.

My approach with horses is the same way approach most things- I ask, how was it made to function? So, I study a lot of history and how horses lived before people got involved. In the wild horses are ALWAYS outside and almost always eating.
In addition, they are ALWAYS in a herd- they are very social animals. That is why I prefer 24/7 pasture turnout with at least one pasture buddy.

Remember, I know this isn't always possible for PLENTY of reasons. This is just the ideal situation for a healthy horse.

24/7 turn-out with a buddy is great for several reasons.
  1. Continuous grazing. This is so important for proper digestive function and prevention of ulcers. The act of grinding grass triggers the production of natural buffers that keep the stomach lining protected.
  2. Continuous movement. The ability for your horse to be moving freely is FANTASTIC for their circulation and can prevent stocking up (or other swelling).  This also supports proper digestive function.
  3.  Social interaction. Horses are very social creatures. They are herd animals and there can be serious emotional and behavioral (sometimes even physical) consequences for keeping them secluded. Plus, there really isn't anything cuter than 2 horses playing and loving on each other.
  4. Emotional well-being. Being confined in a stall (especially in a busy barn) can be very stressful- no matter how many "fun" toys you provide.
I know a lot of people that feel it is important to keep their show/ racehorses safe and injury-free, which usually means they extremely limit their turn-out time and do not believe in pasture buddies. While I completely understand those concerns, I would like to point out that continuous pasture time can reduce the chance of injury by keeping the horse more limber, supporting healthy circulation, and equine mental health. If you are uncomfortable with other horses for pasture buddies, you can use other animals, or at least keep other horses within eyesight.

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This isn't Rocket Science

Taking care of your body doesn't have to be complicated. And it doesn't require a doctor or any other expert for that matter. I have studied health more than most people that haven't chosen to work in the "health industry" and it isn't uncommon for me to get asked questions about what to do under certain circumstances.


While I am an advocate for wellness and prevention and I do teach people how to care for their bodies and those of their beloved pets, we really need to get something straight.

    1. I am not a doctor or a veterinarian and therefore, it is illegal for me to diagnose or treat human or animal.

    2. Wellness and prevention have nothing to do with diagnosing and treating.

I understand how this can be a confusing concept. Especially because we have been raised in a culture that taught us that if we have a question about our bodies and how they function or if something is "normal" we need to speak with a doctor. This logic seems to even make sense- I mean doctors go to school for a long time so they really must be better informed on what it takes to have and maintain optimum health. However, this simply isn't true. 


Doctors go to school to study diseases and treatments for disease. They generally do not spend a lot of time studying health and what causes it. In fact, they don't really study what causes disease either. So, what does that mean for you? Simple: wellness and prevention is something you can learn about and dominate for yourself and your family if you want to! And, if you are experiencing intense symptoms and need a diagnosis and possibly a treatment- GO TO THE DOCTOR!


No matter where you are on your wellness and prevention journey, it is important to remember to use all of your resources. If you are lucky enough to have a friend or contact that is super knowledgeable- fantastic! However, remember that your health and wellness is your responsibility and that means that you need to use your resources- the internet (coupled with your favorite search engine) is a powerful resource. As are the reference books offered by Life Science Publishing and many other publishers. Heck, there are even reference apps!

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Liver Detoxing- why you or your pet may need it

Liver Detoxing- why you or your pet may need it
Our liver's do a lot of work on the daily. I used to think that only people that had a history of alcohol abuse or had other issues needed to worry about their liver health.

I can tell you now that I know that is all wrong- but maybe not in the ways you are thinking.

As it turns out, what I currently refer to as Liver Detoxing isn't really what I initially thought of when it was originally presented to me. When I think detox, I think of ridding something of toxins. It is actually the Liver's job to help the body eliminate toxins. That being said, we don't necessarily need to get toxins out of the liver (that's a little redundant 😉).

When we are saying "liver detox" we are really wanting to help the liver to function better. A strained liver is the result of many toxins coming into the body from various different ways including food, what goes into/ on the body, and other environmental factors. So, when we support a healthier liver, we are allowing the liver to clean out our body's the way they should.

How do you know if you or your pet may need a liver detox?

  • Excessive Fatigue
  • Skin Issues and Hair Loss
  • Hormone Imbalances
  • Bloating/ Passing Gas
  • High Levels of Heavy Metals
  • Definitely an important step- talk to your doctor or your pet's veterinarian. 
For myself and my dog, Ardy, allergies were a big part of finding out that our livers needed extra support. I am still working on cleaning up my entire lymphatic system. Luckily, getting Ardy's liver functioning better was faster (which can be contributed, at least in part, to the fact that he is only 5 and I have been very picky about what he is exposed to since I got him at 6 months old).

So.... What do you need to do to have a happy liver?

As a human, one of my first thoughts is limit alcohol consumption. For me, that hasn't been a major contributor to my liver toxicity. And, I'm going to assume most pets don't have that problem either. 

The next thing to consider is what goes in and on you and your pet. You may be surprised to find out that there are a lot of ingredients in some of your everyday products that are actually taxing your liver and even causing other issues with your body- including some issues that you consider normal 😳 

Also, FOOD. I am not going to tell you about healthy foods and unhealthy foods- that's a whole different blog. What I will say is that you may not realize that your body (or your pet's body) may be sensitive to some foods that you deem as healthy. Example: I was feeding Ardy Chicken, Turkey, and Duck when we found out that he was allergic to poultry 🤦

Finally, to follow up on food: supplementation. What we know about food sources on the planet currently aren't as nutrient-dense as they were in years past. Add to that: a lot of foods (especially pet foods) are highly processed- and highly processed foods are far from nutrient-dense and usually contain some very unhealthy ingredients. Supplementation can be SUPER important for THE ENTIRE BODY.

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Why Should you Help Your Horse Release Trauma

It is very common to hear people talk about how horses have helped them heal their long-standing traumas. We also hear people talk about rescuing horses. But there is very little conversation around helping horses truly heal and release traumas. Here are 3 reasons we should not only be talking about helping horses release their traumas, but also making it a point to actually do it. We can help our horses truly heal!  



Trauma leads to anxiety...

very much the same as it does in people.

 


Each horse shows their anxiety differently- also, just like people. It is very common for horses to express their feelings of anxiety as common stable vices: cribbing, weaving, and pawing. If these vices go on long enough they will become bad habits (or become unmanageable). If we can help the horse release it's trauma, we can help them heal, stop the bad vices, and live a better life.



Better performance

is totally possible.

Stable vices are definitely not the only side effects of trauma. From loading in the trailer to misbehaving under saddle, trauma responses and the physical manifestations of trauma can happen anywhere and can range from barely noticeable to straight-up life-threatening for the horse, handler, and any bystanders. By helping the horse release their trauma every aspect of life for the horse and surrounding people can be improved, from the show ring to the trails.



Helping the horse heal

can lead to a deeper bond.

 

So many people have stories of how horses have helped them heal. People have stories of trauma that result in feelings of anxiety and unworthiness. Those people (and others) have reported that working with horses has made them feel whole again. A huge part of that healing is the emotional connection that people have to horses. There is no greater feeling than when you and your horse have bonded on a deeply emotional level. This often leads to more joy and fluidity during the time spent between horse and rider/ handler.


Interested in helping your horse release trauma? Get my guide: 3 Ways to Help your Horse Release Trauma.

 
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