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What is the emotion code?

What is the emotion code?
Y'all! I have been working hard to get ready to share this amazing modality with you!  I am so excited to share with you today about the Emotion Code. And YES! This is great for HORSE and RIDER!



What is the Emotion Code?

To understand what the Emotion Code is, we need to start with emotions. Emotions, like everything else in the universe, are energy. Different emotions have been associated with different organs and can, in fact, become trapped within both human and animal bodies.

Emotions become trapped when they are not properly processed or are really powerful. Once an emotion is trapped in the body it has the potential to prevent you from accomplishing your goals, prevent you from deep connections with others, and even the potential to cause physical pain and illness.

Luckily, we are able to release emotions once they have become trapped. Bonus: it's super simple and virtually painless- no long-suffering therapy sessions necessary! 🙌

The Emotion Code is a process of identifying and clearing emotions that have become trapped in our bodies throughout our lifetime and even some that have been inherited from previous generations. My journey with The Emotion Code started several years ago when I saw a Youtube video of Dr. Bradley Nelson explaining and demonstrating The Emotion Code... which lead to the purchase of his book (get your copy here: https://amzn.to/34nvF5M). I was intrigued by the book and even attempted some of the techniques on my own- however, I wasn't confident enough to do much with it.

Fast forward to July of 2020 when my BFF mentioned that she had scheduled an Emotion Code session with a practitioner! I was interested and after she reported a positive experience, I made an appointment with the same practitioner. After several sessions, my practitioner mentioned that becoming certified in the Emotion Code would be a perfect addition to the services my business already offers- y'all, she wasn't kidding!!

The Emotion Code has opened up a whole new realm to me. So far, I have been able to work on horses, people, dogs, and cats from all over the United States and even in the UK!

I have seen the Emotion Code break bad habits, relieve physical pain, lift emotional weight off of people, find and relieve problems in animals that vets and other professionals couldn't identify, finally allow people to be free from extra physical weight and so much more.

If this is something that interests you, for yourself or an animal learn more and find booking info here: https://margaretparsons.com/page/emotion-code

Hustle

Hustle
Let's chat about hustle for a minute. I assume everyone is familiar with hustle. Maybe it's not something you are doing right now, but most likely you have had a time in your life that you were hustling. You were working so hard for something that you wanted for yourself, for your family, or even someone else entirely.

I LOVE hustle. I love working.... yes, even physical labor. Growing up it was common to be told that working hard would deliver the results I was looking for- and so did Disney movies. Most TV shows and movies growing up did have an element of work hard to get what you want. But there were others that spoke truth- you have a purpose and when you focus on that purpose and showing up in service, miracles happen- people in my life would graciously remind me that "movies are just pretend."

Here's the truth- from a long time hustler/ workaholic: Alignment is what really matters- not how hard or how much you work.

My best results are always from times when I was in a deep flow. When ideas would just pop into my head when I had no questions about what was best because I was so excited to employ my latest light bulb moments. And that, my friends, is alignment. Those days I could put in less than two hours of work a day and have HUGE results. I was a result magnet. 

Have you seen the Field of Dreams? Yeah, you know, the movie with Kevin Costner (if you are in your 20s you may need to look it up on Disney+ 🤣)... Anyway, the tag line from the movie is, "If you build it, they will come." Kevin Costner's character is on the verge of losing the family farm and he spends boo-coo bucks to build a baseball field on his land.

I am not going to try to convince you that ghosts are real or any of the other woo-woo things that happened in that movie, but I KNOW that when we follow our hearts, walk in our purpose and serve others, we will be fulfilled, at peace, and be provided for.

You will never hear me say that hustle is bad. I will tell you that unaligned hustle will burn you out. I will also tell you that there is a better way. If you continue to hustle with no or only partial alignment, you will not achieve what you are after- you may complete your immediate goal, but the bigger goal (peace, fulfillment, time and financial freedom) will constantly be right out of reach.

If you loved this blog, you will also love my free guide: 3 ways to move from Hustle to Alignment. Get it HERE.

The Truth about Health, Wellness and Prevention

The Truth about Health, Wellness and Prevention

I don't know about you, but when I was growing up, we didn't make too many trips to the doctor. My family has been blessed with good health. Its as easy as that, right?


The reality is that my family ate very little processed foods. My mother was "no fun" and never let me get my favorite sugar loaded cereals when we went to the store. She also made sure that I had limited access to pop. We always had plenty of fresh (home grown when possible) fruits and vegetables. I spent most of my days active and outside and when I was inside, my face was in a book. My mother also went to great lengths to ensure that my sister and I were not exposed to some of life's most negative, confusing and heart wrenching moments. I know that is really why my family was and has been so healthy. My mother did everything in her power to make sure that our family ate, moved and thought well. I don't know that she was aware then, but she set us all up to have optimum health.


What is optimum health? Heck, what is health? For most people I know, they have never experienced optimum health. We all have settled for health that can include headaches, soreness, heartburn, restless sleep, exhaustion and so many other "normal" symptoms. The truth is, health is living without symptoms. Health is your body being able to fight off any invaders without you even knowing that the invaders showed up. Health is the state that your body is in when everything is functioning the way it was meant to function. Your body systems are strong and efficient.


So what does it take to reach that kind of health? Optimal health, when your body is strong and efficient, is earned by eating well, thinking well and moving well.


Okay great- you know it all now- eat well, think well, move well- that's all there is to it... right? Yes and no. It depends on what you believe constitutes eating, thinking and moving well. Earning optimal health can seem overwhelming when we look at the magnitude of information available to us. High fat or high carb? Raw food or cooked foods... or both? Protein shakes or only whole foods? Supplements or no? And all these questions (and all their many different answers) only pertain to the "eat well" portion of optimal health! It is hard to believe that understanding how to obtain and maintain optimal health could possibly be simple with so much differing information.


The truth is that obtaining optimal health is simple. All anyone has to do is provide their body with the materials that are required by their DNA. Humans, as a species, all require the same materials for optimal health. The proper portions of fruits, vegetables and water are all required. As is the appropriate type and amount of exercise. And finally, thinking in a positive and open manner also plays into your current level of health.


It's usually that last bit there that really holds people up. It's pretty safe to say that "everyone" knows or has at least heard about eating less and moving more, but.... ummmmm, what the heck does my thinking have to do with my health?! A lot, actually. 


All in all, this health business seems really complicated. Wellness and Prevention don't have to be though. It does take a little research and dedication and it is worth all of it if you want to avoid illness and experience your best life. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure right?! If you are interested in starting your journey toward optimal health, I would highly recommend that you look up Dr. James Chestnut. It's important to remember two things: 1) this is your journey. You choose the path and customize it every step of the way; 2) you don't have to change everything in your life at once. You absolutely can turn your life upside-down, overhaul your lifestyle and remove all of the unnecessary chemicals from your life tomorrow. Or, you can start small by just eating one more serving of fruit and vegetables tomorrow than you usually would. Then maybe ditch the standard, chemical-laden deodorant..... or decide that the one thing you will never change is your deodorant. It's completely up to you. Build a life you love and nourish your body to live the life you've built!

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Blessings, Faith, and Adventure



Every day we go about our business- we work, care for the kids,  manage the pets and somehow find the time to do the laundry. My most  valued time is time spent with my husband. We don't have to be doing  anything spectacular. Just sitting outside enjoying the evening and  quiet conversation- or really loud, hysterical laughter- both are just  as likely.

It is really hard for me to sacrifice that  time with my husband. But I did. Completely voluntarily. For a whole  week. IT WAS HARD. I started crying when my husband dropped me off at  the airport. Just a few tears streaming down my cheeks... which lead to  trying to check-in for my flight even though I had checked in online the  night before and standing in line to check my bag... but I didn't have a  bag to check. I made it another four days before I officially broke  down because I missed my people so much. 

In those four days, I had experienced SO much. 

I  became a Young Living member in July of 2015. Back then, I didn't  really know what I had gotten myself into. I barely used my oils and  when I did, they were a last resort. In January of 2017, I realized that  I had been missing out on so much that YL had to offer my family and I.  That was the first year that I became aware of the Young Living International Grand Convention and I declared that I would experience that in 2018. However, 2018 was full of family commitments and a tight  budget. So, I didn't go. But I did decide that nothing would keep me  from the 2019 International Grand Convention in Salt Lake City, Utah- It  is the 25th anniversary of YL after all- it was guaranteed to be an  amazing event. 

It was March of 2019 before I really  even thought of going to convention again. Convention was mid July. I was running out of time to find a ticket and transportation. Honestly,  this was not something that was budgeted for and I had barely mentioned  it to my husband. I just kept thinking that the right circumstances would come along and it would all work out. And it did. By mid-March, I  found a convention ticket for less than the early bird price- BONUS! I  also was blessed to have a friend reach out with a room in an Airbnb for the week of convention- perfect!

I was starting to  feel the pressure to find transportation by the time June rolled around.  However, with my wedding anniversary and my baby girl's 11th birthday,  convention wasn't really on my radar. Back in March, I had set Google  Flights to track flight prices and had been receiving regular updates.  Everyday closer to the day I needed to leave, the price went higher. Two and a half weeks before I would have to leave in order to do all of the things I had planned, an email came through with exactly the right price- it was so low, people didn't believe me when I told them. 
That  was it. I had my ticket, a place to stay, and my airfare. All that was left was to tell my husband that I was going. I am so freaking blessed that his only response was to tell me to enjoy every freaking minute of it. And I mostly did. 

While my husband managed the home front, I went on my first solo adventure. I had gone away for 3 day weekends, but I had never flown alone or been away from all of my people for quite that long. 

When I arrived in Salt Lake City, I found my way to public transportation and the convention center. I registered and received my convention swag. I found my friend and we went grocery shopping for the week. That first day was a blur of travel, new experiences, and shopping.

Day two was the highlight of the trip. What really drew me to Young Living was their  level of integrity and their transparency with their members. The fact that anyone can visit one of their farms just about anytime has always seemed so cool to me. And then I experienced it. 

I ended up going to the Young Living Farm in Mona, Utah "by myself"- sort of. I went with at least a thousand other YL members, but as far as I knew, I didn't know any of them. It was the most beautiful place and such a humbling experience. 
It blows my mind that there is a COMPANY that is so generous, benevolent, and whose mission is  truly to make lives better- and not by sending large amounts of money to big organizations, but by deeply connecting to individuals around the world and the organizations that those individuals are deeply connected to. It is unbelievable and such a blessing!

The remainder of the trip was wonderful. I took time to myself and spent each day with different people and explored different things available to me in the city. If you haven't been to convention- GO! It's an  amazing experience. AND you don't even have to be a member of YL to go experience it. 

Overall, I really want to impress upon you that if there is somewhere you want to go or something you want to do... DO IT! It's not easy and it can be nerve wracking or even  stressful, but it is worth every minute of it!! Find a way to afford it!  Count your blessings and say "yes" to adventure!!

Want to know more about YL or going to convention? Shoot me a message! I  would be honored to share this amazing company with you- no-pressure- just sharing  

Why Turn-out time is a non-negotiable for my horses

Why Turn-out time is a non-negotiable for my horses
There are definitely a variety of opinions about what a horse's life should look like. Should they live in a stall? outside? in a standing stall? in a pasture with grass? or a dry lot?

I am going to tell you my opinion and the information I used to form it. There are certain situations that will require different living arrangements for some horses and circumstances. For simplicity, I will only be addressing healthy horses without special circumstances.

My approach with horses is the same way approach most things- I ask, how was it made to function? So, I study a lot of history and how horses lived before people got involved. In the wild horses are ALWAYS outside and almost always eating.
In addition, they are ALWAYS in a herd- they are very social animals. That is why I prefer 24/7 pasture turnout with at least one pasture buddy.

Remember, I know this isn't always possible for PLENTY of reasons. This is just the ideal situation for a healthy horse.

24/7 turn-out with a buddy is great for several reasons.
  1. Continuous grazing. This is so important for proper digestive function and prevention of ulcers. The act of grinding grass triggers the production of natural buffers that keep the stomach lining protected.
  2. Continuous movement. The ability for your horse to be moving freely is FANTASTIC for their circulation and can prevent stocking up (or other swelling).  This also supports proper digestive function.
  3.  Social interaction. Horses are very social creatures. They are herd animals and there can be serious emotional and behavioral (sometimes even physical) consequences for keeping them secluded. Plus, there really isn't anything cuter than 2 horses playing and loving on each other.
  4. Emotional well-being. Being confined in a stall (especially in a busy barn) can be very stressful- no matter how many "fun" toys you provide.
I know a lot of people that feel it is important to keep their show/ racehorses safe and injury-free, which usually means they extremely limit their turn-out time and do not believe in pasture buddies. While I completely understand those concerns, I would like to point out that continuous pasture time can reduce the chance of injury by keeping the horse more limber, supporting healthy circulation, and equine mental health. If you are uncomfortable with other horses for pasture buddies, you can use other animals, or at least keep other horses within eyesight.

If you like diving into topics like this, check out my free Facebook group here. 



Meet Margaret

 

I've worked with and studied horses for the majority of my life. I have seen my fair share of injuries and lameness. I've had horses that were trained and some that we broke to ride ourselves.

Through this, there were horses that didn't heal as fast or as thoroughly as I'd hoped. There were also horses that had chronic behavioral issues and/ or were difficult to train. At that time, I believed that was the end of the road with those horses- they had reached their highest potential and it wasn't enough for my ambitions.

Sometime in 2017, I came across a Facebook post that showed before and after massage photos and told the story of a horse that had been struggling to pick up his left lead and was constantly knocking poles in the show jumping ring. After several massages, there were no more pole knocks or problems picking up canter leads. That had my attention. I followed the page that made that post for a little over a year before I finally took the plunge and signed up for the equine massage certification program through Midwest Natural Healing for Animals.

Watching/ following that Facebook page inspired me. I wanted to be able to just look at a horse and KNOW what problems they may be dealing with and how to fix the root CAUSE. I can confidently say that I have learned all of that and more.

I find joy in the relief and release that I provide to horses from all disciplines- I find that helping the horse physically creates a better situation for everyone. Obviously, releasing tension in a horse will lead to relaxation, and relaxation can open the horse up to a deeper connection to the handler. This can also lead to advancement in training and higher performance.

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